Kind of dense
I've been reading http://drupal.org/node/195035 and am kind of lost because my brain is too dense.
I want my users to be able to decide whether or not to also post their blog on FB - as in the "dff_custom" code. I can handle customizing that little module.
Where I am lost is which of the FB modules I need, whether or not I need those extra libraries, which version is best (this is a new implementation, so no baggage). Also, do I really need a developer's account at FB? It all seems rather daunting to someone who essentially wants to do what the "Share" button does, but to do it automatically.
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Let's keep this thread on the
Let's keep this thread on the issue queue: http://drupal.org/node/809258
You'll need at the very
You'll need at the very least... the core Drupal for Facebook module, plus the Connect and Stream modules.
As you point out, you can get "share" without maintaining an app. But to post to a wall automatically, you need a full application (so yes, you need the developer app on facebook) and you need the user to authorize the app and grant the extended permission for publishing to wall without prompting.